Friday 30 October 2015

Rejoice! For 'tis the end of Sober October, may ye all drink wine and be merry once more

Okay I know it isn’t *technically* the end of Sober October, but my friends and I started two days early so we can *technically* have a tipple or two tonight, right?

I have mixed feelings about Sober October. On one hand I actually enjoyed it (yes, enjoyed it! Shock, horror!) Over the past few weeks, I’ve had really productive weekends (which I need right now, what with planning a wedding and all). AND I lost a few pounds, hurrah!

On the other hand, however, it was kind of dull. Tom and I practically became recluses for the month, which again, was good for the wedding planning side of things, but not so good socially-wise.

It was also strange/awful not having a glass of red with red meat. We had steak a couple of times, a lamb tagine one evening and spaghetti meatballs another, and I was really, really, REALLY craving a nice red. We tried grape juice as an alternative, but no… just, no.

We’re bidding farewell to Sober October properly tomorrow evening and having a Halloween party with booze a plenty. I know I’ll probably miss that smug Sober October feeling on Sunday morning when I’ll just want to spend the day lying on the sofa in my PJs, eating popcorn and watching re-runs of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills.

I do think I’d be up for another sober month at some point and would encourage anyone to give it a go if they fancy a bit of a detox because you definitely do feel better for it. Unfortunately (?) I’ll be missing out on Dry January because my hen party is on January 16th which I am so excited about! My closest friends and I have booked an apartment in Liverpool and we’re going to have such a fun, mad, definitely-not-dry night! x

My not-very-Sober-October-appropriate coasters

Friday 9 October 2015

Rugby match and Sunday lunch – the two challenges of Sober October: Week One!

Golly I feel so guilty for neglecting my blog! I can’t believe I haven’t posted since July, but things have been a little hectic with wedding planning, house sorting and work. I’m going to make sure I post more regularly now however, because I do love me blog I do.

SO! Tom and I have been taking part in Sober October with a few of our friends and we’re just about to venture into our second alcohol-free weekend. We decided to do it partly because we’re ‘shredding for the wedding’ (only five months to go now!) and also because cracking open a beer or a bottle of wine on a Friday night was becoming a bit of a routine.

Our first Sober October weekend came with two challenges. Firstly the England v Australia Rugby World Cup match, which was a mix of sulking and celebrating. While I wanted to drown my sorrows with a glass or two, Tom was all set to crack open the champers and celebrate our woeful defeat, being the proud Welshman that he is.

Our second challenge was Sunday lunch. We booked a table at The Sun, which is one of our favourite restaurants. The food was absolutely divine as always. The only thing missing was a nice glass of red with our roast beef… but we settled for elderflower pressé (in wine glasses!)

Despite those two situations which definitely warranted a tipple or two, I’m actually quite surprised how much I’m enjoying Sober October (so far anyway, it’s early days yet!) But it is quite nice waking up on a Saturday or Sunday morning with no foggy head, not wanting to sleep-in or eat junk food and having a productive day instead of slobbing out on the sofa. Let’s see how the second weekend goes!


Are you taking part in Sober October? Let me know how you’re getting on! 
I would like this waiting for me on 1 November please.

Friday 17 July 2015

My Travel Bucket List: Five places I HAVE to visit!

1. Italy
I fell in love with Italy when I visited Rome and Venice and I’m desperate to see more of the country. Luckily, Tom feels the same way, so we’re planning an epic honeymoon travelling all around Italy for three weeks. The plan (so far) is to fly into either Rome and Venice, then make our way down south to Calabria, while stopping off in lots of beautiful places on the way. For me, the places I really want to see are Sorrento, Florence, Chianti, Verona, Lucca, Positano and Lake Garda.  

2. New York
I genuinely can’t believe I’ve never been to New York! It seems as though everyone I know has been and from the sound of it, I’m definitely missing out, but fingers crossed we’ll get there in the next couple of years. I want to go to the top of the Empire State building, buy a cupcake from Magnolia bakery, eat a Pastrami on rye sandwich, go for a walk in Central Park, wander around art galleries and museums, track down Carrie Bradshaw’s apartment (I am still not over Sex and the City) and people watch over a cocktail or two.

3. Monaco
I am a huge Formula 1 fan and watching the Monaco Grand Prix would be a dream come true. I think we might have some serious saving to do, but hey, one can dream (... and buy lottery tickets!)

4. India
My grandad was from India so I think that might be why I’ve always had a fascination with it. My mum and I often say what a shame it is that he didn’t keep in touch with his family because it would be amazing to go and visit them now. The places I would really love to visit are Mumbai, Agra, Jaipur and Kerala.

5. Greece
Santorini is the number one place on my Greece hit list! I’ve never seen a bad picture of the place, it just looks absolutely stunning. I’d also love to visit Mykonos, Rhodes, Athens and Crete. 

There we have it, my top five travel bucket list! Where are your top places you want to visit? Comment below, or tell me on Twitter or Instagram: DinkyDanni_ 

Tuesday 14 July 2015

Book Review(s): The Girl on the Train, The Husband’s Secret and The Lie… three thrillers, but only one was truly thrilling

*Reviews contain spoilers* All synopses taken from Goodreads.com

The Girl on the Train

Rachel takes the same commuter train every morning. Every day she rattles down the track, flashes past a stretch of cozy suburban homes, and stops at the signal that allows her to daily watch the same couple breakfasting on their deck. She’s even started to feel like she knows them. “Jess and Jason,” she calls them. Their life—as she sees it—is perfect. Not unlike the life she recently lost.

And then she sees something shocking. It’s only a minute until the train moves on, but it’s enough. Now everything’s changed. Unable to keep it to herself, Rachel offers what she knows to the police, and becomes inextricably entwined in what happens next, as well as in the lives of everyone involved. Has she done more harm than good?

Firstly, I think Paula Hawkins made a really brave decision to write the protagonist, Rachel, as quite an unlikeable character (initially she is, anyway). I had to stop myself from shouting at her throughout the whole book because she was so infuriating at times. A couple of frustrating moments in particular were when she appeared to kick her drinking habit, but then the next paragraph or chapter would begin with her drinking a G&T! *Facepalm*

The other main character, Megan, was not particularly likeable either. So it was really quite strange reading a book and not warming to either of the two key characters. Saying that, however, I was really rooting for Rachel near the end, especially when she figured out that it was Tom who had manipulated her for years and convinced her she was a mad, violent drunk. I wanted Rachel to get her revenge on him, but little did I know just how gruesome that revenge was going to be!

Towards the end of the book, I found the part when Anna and Rachel suddenly seemed to be BBFs a little strange. It was a bit odd and unrealistic. After all, the storyline mainly revolved around Rachel’s hatred and bitterness towards Anna and Anna’s desperate attempts to get Rachel out of her and Tom’s lives for good.

I was surprised by the twist – who actually killed Megan. I was convinced it was going to be either the mysterious man with red hair on the train, or Rachel's roommate, or Anna, or perhaps even Rachel herself.

Now that I’ve finished the book after reading and hearing so much hype about it, I’m really excited about the film. Although I can’t actually picture who is going to play Rachel. Apparently Emily Blunt has been signed, but I’m hoping they will cast her as either Anna or Megan, she’s definitely too far too glamorous to play a downtrodden alcoholic. It has also been recently reported that the film will be set in the US instead of the UK. If that’s true, I think it’s a huge mistake! It should definitely be set in London.

The Girl on The Train by Paula Hawkins, 4/5 – gripping and creepy, fans of Gone Girl will love it

The Husband’s Secret

My darling Cecilia, if you’re reading this, then I’ve died...

Imagine that your husband wrote you a letter, to be opened after his death. Imagine, too, that the letter contains his deepest, darkest secret—something with the potential to destroy not just the life you built together, but the lives of others as well. Imagine, then, that you stumble across that letter while your husband is still very much alive...

Cecilia Fitzpatrick has achieved it all—she’s an incredibly successful businesswoman, a pillar of her small community, and a devoted wife and mother. Her life is as orderly and spotless as her home. But that letter is about to change everything, and not just for her: Rachel and Tess barely know Cecilia—or each other—but they too are about to feel the earth-shattering repercussions of her husband’s secret.

Meh. That pretty much sums up how I feel about this book. Meh.

I downloaded it onto my Kindle ages ago. I’d heard so many great things about it, but every time I picked it up, I soon put it back down again. The reason why? Because there are SO MANY NAMES. Don’t get me wrong, sometimes it has to be done, but in this case, almost all of the names mentioned were entirely irrelevant to the story. Within the first few pages, I felt like I’d just been introduced to every single person Cecilia Fitzpatrick had ever met. Now that I’ve finished the book, I think that it was unnecessary to mention so many people who make such a fleeting appearance.

Another point that annoyed me a little was the huge emphasis that is put on the story of the Berlin Wall. I am still not entirely sure why it is so closely intertwined in the story. My interpretation is that maybe the Berlin Wall represents a barrier that shields Cecilia from anything negative in her life – that she is so comfortable in her domestic bliss, but then when she discovers her husband’s sinister secret, everything she thinks she knows comes crashing down in the same way the wall did in 1989. I could have that completely wrong, but that’s just how I interpreted the frequent mentions of it.  

Even though the story wasn’t really grabbing me, I forced myself to carry on. Partly because I just wanted to know what the husband’s bloody secret was, dammit. But when the secret was revealed, I wasn’t even that surprised. It was pretty obvious it was going to be a murder, what else could be so dark and disturbing? All in all, the general concept of The Husband’s Secret was fantastic and had so much promise, but unfortunately, the entire story was just a bit predictable.

The Husband’s Secret by Liane Moriarty, 2/5 – two points for the general idea of the book, which is intriguing and thought-provoking

The Lie

I know your name's not really Jane Hughes...

Jane Hughes has a loving partner, a job in an animal sanctuary and a tiny cottage in rural Wales. She's happier than she's ever been but her life is a lie. Jane Hughes does not really exist.

Five years earlier Jane and her then best friends went on holiday but what should have been the trip of a lifetime rapidly descended into a nightmare that claimed the lives of two of the women.

Jane has tried to put her past behind her but someone knows the truth about what happened. Someone who won't stop until they've destroyed Jane and everything she loves.
 

I was so disappointed by this book. It was quite similar to The Husband’s Secret in that it had so much potential and was such an interesting concept, but the more the story went on, the weaker it felt.

For one thing, I just didn’t believe in the friendships of the key characters – something which is an important part of the book. Without that belief, the whole story just seemed entirely unrealistic. The women appeared to really resent being in the same room as each other, so why on earth would they go on an intense backpacking holiday around Nepal together? Not one of the characters in the friendship circle was likeable, even the main character was far too naive and insipid to be a believable heroine.

I felt like the ending of The Lie was a little bit… how can I put this… thrown together. It was as though the author had started off on a roll, then got a bit bored and finished the story as quickly as possible. Towards the end, I just didn’t care and that is not how you should feel at the end of a thriller.


The Lie by C.L. Taylor, 1/5 – disappointing!

If you've read any good thrillers (or any great books) lately, then please let me know! I'm always on the lookout for good books. Either comment below, or tweet/follow me on Twitter or Instagram: DinkyDanni_

Tuesday 30 June 2015

Book Review: Wild by Cheryl Strayed was a tough & heart-rending read, but definitely worth it

Wild came with a warning.

“It’s a tough read” my best friend Loren said, as she handed her copy to me. Within the first few pages, I knew exactly what she was talking about.

Loren and I have always been incredibly close to our mums and as the story is about the author’s personal journey after losing her own mother to cancer, it’s not the easiest subject to read about, or even think about.

That aside, I really, really enjoyed Wild.

If you haven’t heard of it, the basic premise is that Cheryl Strayed completely loses her way after her mother’s death. She cheats on her husband, therefore destroying her marriage, drops out of her college studies and her toxic relationships even lead her to heroin. Years later, with nothing left to lose, she decides to hike more than 1,000 miles of the Pacific Crest Trail. She treks from the Mojave Desert, through California and Oregon to Washington State completely alone and without any training or experience.

Cheryl is not your typical protagonist, but I found myself rooting for her. I desperately wanted her to succeed and was willing her on with every turn of the page. Her story is written with such warmth, charm and raw honesty that you can’t help but wish for a happy ending.

I can understand how anyone might be put off by the book, thinking it could be repetitive and dull as it is focused on a 1,000 mile hike, but I can guarantee that is not the case at all. Although, of course, the PCT plays a huge part in the book, the focus is really on Cheryl’s personal journey and her identity – how she lost it and her determination to find it again… to become “the woman her mother raised her to be,” as she says.

But if you really don’t fancy reading the book, check out the film. I watched it the other night and I thought Reese Witherspoon was excellent in her role as Cheryl. They missed some parts out, but nothing that really impacted on the essence of the story. I was also really pleased that they didn’t go into too much detail about Lady, as that made me cry when I was reading the book (if you’ve read it, you’ll know exactly which bit I mean!)


Wild by Cheryl Strayed, 4/5 

Tuesday 2 June 2015

It’s not called the City of Love for nothing… 11 romantic things to do in Paris!

SAD news this week guys! The love locks along the Pont des Arts bridge in Paris are being removed. Apparently the trend is causing “long-term heritage degradation” and a section of the bridge actually collapsed last summer, yikes!

I think it’s such a shame because it’s such a cute and romantic idea. Nearly two years ago, Tom and I left our love lock on the bridge during the most incredible holiday ever when Tom popped the question!
Our love lock we left on the Pont des Arts bridge in August 2013
It makes me a bit sad to think that our love lock will probably be thrown away… but hey ho, Paris is one of the most romantic cities in the world and there are still plenty of sweet things to do there with your other half! Here’s a run-down of my 10 favourites that we did during our amazing trip there:

1) Take in the stunning panoramic views of Paris from the top of its most iconic building – the Eiffel Tower… but don’t bother with the champagne bar at the top (it has definitely seen better days), the bar on the mid-level floor is much better.
Don't look up...
Don't look down!
2) Have a stroll down the Champs-Élysées and pick up a box of the famous Ladurée macaroons…
Hmm, which flavour to go for first??
3) … then sit and eat them at the top of the Arc du Triomphe while watching the world go by.
Pretty sure the epic climb to the top of the Arc de Triomphe worked off all the calories from the macaroons...
4) Visit two other beautiful and iconic Paris buildings, Notre Dame and Sacre Coeur. As Sacre Coeur is located on the highest part of the city in Montmarte, the views are absolutely incredible (just be prepared to walk up lots of steps!)
The construction of Notre Dame began in 1163 and it was opened in 1345
The top of the Sacre Coeur dome is open to the public and is the second highest point in Paris 
5) There are so many incredible food markets and food shops in Paris. If you’re there in the summer, pop along and buy some delicious picnic snacks, then find a great spot to eat and drink in the sunshine. Perfect picnic places include Champ de Mars, Parc Monceau and Place de Vosges.
French bread, French cheese and French wine... what more could you want for a summer picnic??
The Champ de Mars will always be my favourite picnic spot - it's where Tom proposed to me!
6) Plan a trip to the Musée Rodin, with its rose-filled foot paths and beautiful gardens, it is well worth a visit. And, of course, it is home to one of the most romantic sculptures of all time – The Kiss.
Auguste Rodin's 'The Kiss'
7) The Eiffel Tower is making another appearance on this list, but hey, it’s Paris! The tower is even more spectacular when the sun goes down… every hour on the hour, you can watch its 20,000 gold lights sparkle for five minutes – a spectacular sight.
The golden lights on the Eiffel Tower were first unveiled in 1985
8) Capture the memory of your romantic getaway and ask a caricaturist in the cute, cobbled streets of Montmartre to draw you and your beloved.
Trying desperately not to giggle
Tom also trying to keep a straight face
9) A super romantic Paris experience like no other is enjoying a tour of the city on a horse and carriage ride with a chilled bottle of champagne…
The horse and carriage ride begins at the Eiffel Tower and takes you on a mini tour around the city for approximately one hour - they also have a cover on the carriage in case of a torrential downpour!
10) … or, you can hop on a tour bus, sit back, relax and see the sights with an interesting commentary and uninterrupted views on an open top bus (if the weather is good!)
An open top bus is a great way to see the city
11) Book a table on the Bateaux Mouches cruise tour and be wined and dined while cruising along the river Seine.
If it's a special occasion, why not book a table for two at the front of the boat with an upgraded menu? It's a little bit more money than a standard table, but definitely worth it!

Monday 1 June 2015

Book Review: Why Pride and Prejudice is the perfect love story

*Contains spoilers* As a sucker for romance, I fell head over heels in love with Pride and Prejudice. It's a classic and definitely one of my top 10 favourite books of all time. I was initially introduced to it at school but, nearly 10 years later, I was desperate to read it again as I had a feeling I'd appreciate it more - and how right I was!

The relationship between Elizabeth and Mr Darcy is just so romantic in such an old-fashioned, timeless way. Take, for example, Mr Darcy’s reply when Elizabeth asks him when he fell in love with her:

"I cannot fix on the hour, or the spot, or the look, or the words, which laid the foundation. It is too long ago. I was in the middle before I knew that it had begun."

Why don’t we talk like that anymore??! The language is beautiful and Jane Austen is an exquisite writer.
Ha ha ha this made me laugh!
Something I especially love about this book is how, as a reader, your feelings are mirrored with that of Elizabeth’s when it comes to Mr Darcy. When he was first introduced, I was like, who the heck does this chap think he is?? (Much like Elizabeth was). But by the end of the book, he was probably my favourite character and I admired how he so desperately wanted to change his ways for Elizabeth.

The way he refused to take credit for the ways he quietly helped her and her family was also testament to his character. For him, just helping Elizabeth was enough and he didn’t need everyone to know about it.

In the final chapters, I was so ready for Elizabeth and Mr Darcy to get together, I had to stop myself from shaking the book in frustration. Despite that, the slow progression of their relationship was really sweet and subtle. I loved the way he hid his love for her for so long. It was also interesting because, while reading it, you know they’re inevitably going to get together, you just don’t know how they’re going to eventually put their differences aside.

As well as the romance, Pride and Prejudice offers a fascinating insight into what life was like for women in society during the late 18th and 19th centuries. Mothers were desperate to find suitable matches for their daughters, who typically had to marry for security and social status, not for love.

Another reason why Pride and Prejudice is such a fantastic read is the depth of characters. Every single one is compelling, yet very complex.

Characters I loved:
Elizabeth – her wit and her headstrong, opinionated nature.
Mr Darcy – so misunderstood!
Jane – her ability to always see the best in people (even if they’re bloomin’ awful – like the Bingley sisters!)
Mr Bennet – deserves a medal for putting up with Mrs Bennet and Lydia.

Characters I was shaking the book in frustration at:
Mr Collins – what a bumbling idiot!
Bingley sisters – snobs.
Lady Catherine – queen snob!

One of the highlights of the book for me was the part towards the end, when Lady Catherine is urging Elizabeth to turn down Mr Darcy, should he ask her to marry him. I was so glad that someone finally stood up to her!

Pride and Prejudice reignited my love of Austen’s work. Now I need to decide which of her books to read next and any recommendations would be gratefully received! I’m thinking perhaps Sense and Sensibility? Let me know if there are any others you would say to read first x

Ps. Pride and Prejudice is not just for gals! Check out this funny article ‘Five reasons dudes should read Pride and Prejudice’ here.